Afternoon Tea Etiquette – The Tea Rooms Way

Afternoon Tea might be rooted in tradition, but here at The Tea Rooms, we like to mix classic charm with a big dollop of personality.

So whether you’re visiting for your first ever Afternoon Tea or you’re a seasoned scone-scoffer, here’s our light-hearted guide to Afternoon Tea etiquette — The Tea Rooms way.

☕ 1. Pinkies Up? Totally Optional.

You can hold your teacup however you like — pinkie out, in, or wrapped around the whole thing like it’s your lifeline. We won’t judge. (Okay, maybe just a tiny bit if it’s two hands and slurping 😆)

🍰 2. Scones: Cream or Jam First?

This is the age-old debate. In Kent, we do love a bit of jam on first… but honestly, we’re happy as long as you’re enjoying yourself and not starting a food fight.

Just please, don’t call them "skawns" — it’s "scones" as in “cones”. (We’re kidding. Kind of.)

🧁 3. It's Totally Fine to Eat the Top Tier First

Tradition says to start with savouries and work your way up, but hey — life’s short and that lemon drizzle might be calling your name. We believe in cake before rules.

🥂 4. It’s an Occasion, So Make it Yours

Afternoon Tea should feel like a treat — whether it’s a birthday, catch-up, date day, or solo break. Dress up, dress down, sip slowly or devour every crumb. There’s no right way… only your way.

💬 Planning Your First Visit?

We’d love to welcome you. Whether you’re booking our standard Afternoon Tea or going all-out with a themed experience in the Wizard, Alice, or Gothic Room — we promise it’ll be special.